And I did get out of there. Eventually. But in the meantime I codependently glued myself to that guy and measured my worth by how often he returned my calls; or showed up when he said he would; or did what I wanted him to do, including sign up for the GRE (which he never took) or flush his marijuana down the toilet (he always bought more). But he had so much potential! He just needed a little tweaking here...and there...he just needed the right person to fix him!
And I firmly and codependently believed that person was me.Read More